As I was wondering and praying about what I should post, I was struck with this idea. It might be a slightly different take and version to Valentine’s Day than you are used to, but it might involve chocolates, flowers, and notes.

When I think of Valentine’s Day, I tend to think of couples in love. Of guys bringing their special girl flowers and chocolates, of special dates together with candles and kisses. I think of the cheesy Valentine’s Day cards that are mailed all around the world and handed out in classrooms. I think of the older couples who have been through so many years together and their tender looks of love that don’t need cards and flowers or chocolates to say “I love you.”

But I also think of the widows who have lost their beloved.

Of widowers who are alone without that sweet someone beside them.

Of single girls who feel the loneliness of the day.

Of couples who don’t have money to even get away for a frosty at Wendy’s.

Of families that don’t have true love.

Of children who have nothing.

So I want to challenge you to do something different!

This Valentine’s season pick someone who will probably not be getting a ring, or flowers, chocolates or even a card, and make it a special day for them. Here are a few ideas.

• Pick a widow at church or in your neighborhood and write them a note or give them a little gift. Tell them something you love about them. Include a Bible verse, and then sign it with a pen name.
• Write a letter to a widower sharing something you appreciate about them.
• Buy flowers or chocolates for a single lady you know and write her a little note. Sign with a pen name.
• If you have an older sister who is not married but is still waiting for God to bring the right one to her, write her a card letting her know how much she means to you. (And if you want, add a little gift.)
• Get a gift card (perhaps this can be a family thing) to a restaurant and give it to a couple who is struggling financially. Offer to babysit their kids or give it anonymously.
• Buy a small stuffed animal or a book and give it to a child who has a hard life.
• Mail a letter to a friend you don’t see. Let them know you haven’t forgotten them.

There are so many ways to spread love if we only look for them.

How are you spreading love this Valentine’s season? Have you ever given a card or gift without letting the receiver know who gave it? Do you know anyone who could use a bit of love this month?